This past week the routine of school and service finally kicked in, and I am feeling great about all aspects of my life here. My first day at Gender DynamiX started out slow, as they didn't know I was coming so early, but once someone arrived who was able to direct me I was off and running on several different projects. The bulk of my work with Gender DynamiX will be helping them with various writing tasks, such as news and legislative briefs, reports on the conferences they are involved with and in attendance of, and possibly some short articles for their monthly newsletter. I felt so welcomed by the GDX staff, and I feel empowered by the sentiment that drives their work. At the core of their mission statement is the intention of advocating for
human rights, and in doing so representing the rights of gender non-conforming individuals. One Tuesday evening I will be attending South Africa's first ever all Muslim gay and lesbian conference, where I will take notes and later write a report for the GDX newsletter. I am extremely proud to be part of an organization dedicated to such an important cause.
I am an English major, and my love for reading has increased here especially since there is virtually nothing else to do since we don't have cable and the internet is very limited, not to mention expensive. Here's the thing. Those who know me well (especially my roomates in Spokane) know that I often choose books that I
want to read over ones that I
should be reading, such as textbooks and articles for class. So, instead of reading the three articles that I was assigned for today's class, I spent the weekend reading Malcom Gladwell's book
Blink, which I found highly interesting and frustrating at the same time. For those who haven't read it, it's a book about, as Gladwell puts it, "rapid cognition, about the kind of thinking that happens in the blink of an eye." This is the kind of thinking that me and a few of my housemates were forced to use this Saturday, when we attempted to take the train from Obz where we live, to our school located near a town called Bellville. In retrospect we didn't do nearly enough planning or research into the appropriate stops, transfers, or routes to take to find UWC, but then this story wouldn't be nearly as entertaining. To get to UWC, you have to take a train that goes slightly east and then transfer to a train going west. We did that. The problem came when we asked a couple people what the stop for UWC was and we got some varied answers, neither of which we could fully understand because of the hard time we have hearing their accent. So, feeling adventurous and overly confident, we picked a stop that we "thought looked right" and got off. This was NOT the right stop. We were in a town called Parow, and getting off the train was like Dorothy landing in Oz, except without the cute little dog and with much, much more poverty. Oh, if only Glenda the Good Witch had shown up at that moment. We decided that we should probably just admit defeat and head home, so we asked the train attendent which platform to wait on for a train to Cape Town. We waited for about twenty minutes when the same attendent came and told us that the train to Cape Town had been cancelled. Cancelled. Not delayed, not moved to a different platform, this train just wasn't coming. Luckily I had the number for a taxi service in my purse, but the wait for that cab felt like an eternity. When it finally arrived, we found out that it was a four person cab, not a seven person like I had requested, so it was an even longer ride home with two other people on my lap in the back seat. So, on Saturday we spent 250R to go...nowhere. Ahh, the joys of travelling. Now, you are probably wondering how I am going to make
Blink fit into all this. Looking back I probably made a hundred snap decisions on that trip. I decided just by looking at someone who I was going to ask for directions It was somewhat frightening, but in the end we all had a good laugh and it is definitley a day I will never forget.
It is 12:17am in the states right now, and most of you have not woken up (though some of you might not even be in bed yet) to February 14th, one of my favorite days of the year. I am sending so much love your way today and hope that you all have a beautiful day, wherever you are. My theologoy professor challenged us to do something on Friday that I am now going to challenge you all to do. He asked us to surrender. Surrender to whatever you are feeling, thinking, wishing, wanting, loving, hating, missing. Surrender to that little voice inside your head that is constantly giving you feedback, and just
be. Just for today, be in love with something or someone and let everything else go. One of the key note speakers at the 2010 Trans Health and Research Conference said something that I think is relevant to this day. He said, "we need more people who can say, irrespective of who you are, I am with you." I am with you all and am wishing you a happy, happy Valentine's Day!